"SA MALIIT NASISIRA ANG RELASYON"

subukan ninyong makipagusap sa mga taong
nasira ang relasyon at malalaman niyong halos
iisa ang nararamdaman nila.

nahandoon ang matinding sakit ng kalooban,
awa sa sarili, galit, panghihinayang,
pangongonsensiya, kawalan ng gana,
kawalan ng pagasa at iba pang negatibo..

pero kung uugatin ang dahilan
ng kanilang paghihiwalay, gaano man kalaki
o gaano man kalawak ang inabot ng kasiraan.
ang lahat ay nagsimula sa maliit na bagay!

naniniwala ako na hindi lang basta nagpapasya
ang lalaki o babae na bigla na lang
humiwalay sa karelasyon o asawa o sirain na
ang kanilang pagsasama.
may pinagmumulan ito na siyang nagiging dahilan
ng pagtalikod sa mga sumpaan.

palibhasa ngay maliliit kaya napakadaling
ibalewala o pabayaan.
maliliit nga kasi, mahina, hindi pansinin
walang bigat, walang importansya.
siguro nga ganoon.
pero kahit maliit ngunit kung hindi
naman natse check, may posibilidad
na dumami, bumigat, lumakas.

doon na nagiging malaki ang maliit.
magugulat na lang minsan ang kapareha
na bagamat maliliit lang ang dahilan
ng kabiyak, ngunit patuloy na naiipon,
nagiging collective at nagsasama sama
hanggang sa hindi na magawang ipagsawalang bahala
ng nakararamdam, bibigay din siya, susuko!
mapapagod, magsasawa!

napakahirap gamutin ang maliliit na bagay
na ito dahil bawat isa'y kakaiba
at nangangailangan ng espesipikong gamot
ngunit iisang solusyon lang ang hinahangad
at iyon ay wakasan na ang kanyang pagtitiis.

mahirap mapansin ang maliliit na bagay
at kinakailangan dito ang bukas na linya
ng komunikasyon ng magkapareha.

kung alam naman natin na mabuti ang kapareha
at hindi sinasadya ang mga pagkakasala
masmabuting pagusapan ang lahat.
may mga tao namang sadyang umaabuso
o walang tunay na pakialam sa sariling mga aksyon
at damdamin ng kapareha, may mas posibilidad na
masira ang kanilang relasyon kundi man magmistulang
isang parusa o habambuhay na tiisin.

sabi ngay nakakapuwing din ang maliit.
pero sa ganitong sitwasyon mas malala dahil nakakasira.

dance..

LIFE isnt about waiting
for the storm to pass..
its about learning
to dance in the rain!!

call me maybe :D funny

:)

At some point,
you’re just going to have
to shut up and
admit that you’re wrong.
It’s not about giving up,
it’s about growing up.

just having fun.. :D

...about break up

Breaking up with someone is never easy,
no matter how long you've been together or why you're breaking up.
Even if you're the one who wants to break up,
many times it's going to be a hard transition for you.
There are a few things you can do to make it a little easier.
Once you make the decision to break up,
set a date with yourself to actually break up with your significant other.
If you don't, you'll keep waiting for the perfect time,
and you'll just make it harder on both of you.
Break up in a semi-public place.
Try to find somewhere where you have some privacy,
but there are other people around to help prevent a messy,
overly emotional scene.
Be honest with the person as to why you want to break up,
but tell them in a kind way, as gently as possible.
Don't use the phrases,
“It's not you, it's me.” or “We can still be friends.”
because it will just make things worse.
You may be able to be friends again some day,
but it will take a lot of time and healing. B Plus,
if you are still spending time together,
it may send mixed signals that you might get back together.
If you are on the receiving end of the break up,
take time to do something special for yourself.
Spend time with other friends.
Keep busy doing things you enjoy.
Go to some new places that don't have memories attached
to them until you've had time to heal.

fall in love

Falling in love is one of those things
that most people dream of happening,
but scares them at the same time.
There is no right or wrong way to fall in love,
there is no secret formula.
There is no set time table for when it should happen
or how long it will take.
The only thing we can do is to be open to it
and willing to take that chance in trusting another person with our h♡rt.

When you fall in love,
you have to go beyond the “warm and fuzzy” feelings
of being with that person,
even though those feelings are very nice.
It's always best to like the person you fall in love with,
which is why so many great relationships started out as friendships.
If you truly enjoy spending time together,
it will make the love even stronger.
Trust and respect are key in all relationships.
If there is no trust or respect,
it's time to rethink the relationship
and find someone who gives you both.
Don't rush things,
it takes time to build a trusting relationship with someone.

choices..

“There are always choices,
always paths from where we are to a better place.
To be alive requires choices every second.
There’s no such thing as the absence of choices.
It’s only our lack of awareness that blinds us to all the possibilities.
Even choices that appear undesirable
could turn into a key experience that reveals hidden paths.
We may never know in advance
where a path will lead us or how long our journey will take.
Only our inner wisdom knows the journey we are supposed to be on.
Trust it.”

-Don Shapiro-

Paalam Na Kahapon

Paalam na kahapon
kay layo na pala ng noon
‘Di ko na inakalang
Darating ang umagang ito

Parang kanina lamang
Nung tayo ay mga batang
Walang kinatatakutan
Sa bukas ay walang pakialam

Iwanan man kita
Nakaukit ka na sa puso ko
Malilimot ba kita
Nakaukit ka na sa puso ko

Paalam na kahapon
Kailangan na ako ng ngayon
Alaala mo’y ikakahon
Ngunit kailan ma’y hindi kayang itapon

Tila utos ng mundong mabuhay
Akong pasulong, at ‘wag paurong
Patawarin mo ako kung
Unti-unti akong binago ng mundo

"wala lang

hindi ko alam kung saan tutungo ang pagsusulat kong ito..
hindi ko din alam kung bakit at kung para saan ba ito..
basta ang gusto ko lang ei magsulat!
khit wala akong maisip na ilagay!!

nakakatawang isipin na mahilig ako
magsulat ng kung ano ano sa blog ko pero hindi naman talaga ako magaling sumulat..
hindi ako makata tulad ng ibang manunulat..

kung ano lang maisip ko ilagay sege lang kahit wala naman na talaga sa tama!
ang mahalaga para sa akin ei makapagpost ako sa blog ko.
bahala na kung anu ang nakalagay!
bahala na rin kung merong magbabasa!
basta masaya ako sa ganito! pake ba nila! hahaha...

F.Y.I., frustation ko kasi ang pagsusulat
kaya masaya ako kung may mga ganitong bagay akong nasusulat..

siguro iniisip nyo ano bang klaseng writer to
walang magandang maisulat pero
pake nyu ba BLOG KO TO!! ☻

so kung matatapos man itong sulat ko ngayon
ng walang patutunguhan ei ayos lang!
ei para sa akin WALA LANG naman talaga ito!
pero salamat na din kung pinagtyagaan mung
basahin to hanggang sa hule.. :O

P.S.
sa totoo lang ginawa ko talaga to kasi wala lang!
wala lang ako magawa kasi wala akong NET!
kaya napagkatuwaan ko magsulat sa aking notepad!! :)
salamat mule at binasa mo ito! ☻