do you believe??

do you believe that there are no accidents in life??

everything happens for a reason.

every person we meet will have a role in our lives, 

be it big or small.

some will hurt, betray and make us cry

to become stronger.

some will teach us lesson, not to  change us

but for us to realize our mistakes and

to help us grow and make us a better  person

and some would simply inspire and love us to 

make us HAPPY

"YESTERDAY, TODAY AND TOMORROW"

there are two in every week that we should not worry about.

 two days that should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

one is YESTERDAY! with its mistakes and cares,

 its faults and blunders, its aches and pains, 

Yesterday has passed, forever beyond our control.

All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday, 

we cannot undo a single act we performed. 

nor we can erase a single word we've said, YESTERDAY is gone!!

the other day we shouldnt worry about is 
TOMORROW with its impossible adversaries,

 its burden, its hopeful promise and poor performance.

tomorrow is beyond our control, 

TOMORROW's sun will rise either in splendor.

or behind a bank of clouds. but it will rise. 

and until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.

this leaves only one day- 

TODAY any person can fight the battles of just one day.

 it is only when we add the burdens of yesterday 
and tomorrow that we break down.

it is not the experience of today that drives people mad.

 it is the remorse for something that happened yesterday,

 and the dread of  what tomorrow may bring.

let us therefore LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME....

"ehersisyo"

babangon sa kama ng maaga
upang tugtug ay simulang pindutin
todo ang pagindak sabay sa tugtugin.
upang bilbil ay matagtag ng matulin

ang pawis sa mukha, umaagos
at hanggang dibdib, bumubuhos
pintig ng puso wagas sa bilis
paghabul sa paghinga di malubos

pero bakit di nababawasan
ang bigat, ganun pa rin sa timbang
araw- araw nageehersisyo
magbunga na sana ang sakripisyo!


pagtapos ng araw, paa'y nasa timbangan
dismayado, pagtimbang natunghayan
dating bigat di nabawasan
kahit pakiramdam ay gumaan!

"puso vs signs"

mahilig ka ba humingi ng mga 'signs'??
naniniwala ka ba sa mga ito??
paano nga ba kung nagtatalo na ang puso mo
at ang mga signs na nakikita mo??

ang hirap noh?
talagang mahihirapan kang pumili
kung alin ang susundin mo, ang puso mo
o ang mga signs na binibigay sayo!

mostly, we end up loving the 'wrong person'
dahil na rin sa kagagawan natin.
actually, wala namang maling tao
pagdating pag-ibig eh.
nadadala lang yun ng mga sitwasyon
at problemang kaakibat ng pakikipagrelasyon.
at kung paano yun ihahandle.

sundin mo kung san ka masaya!
kung happy ka sa ipinakikitang
pagmamahal sayo ng mahal mo,
deadmahin mo na lang muna ang signs!

baka yun pa ang makaapekto sa relasyon ninyo!
kasing kung iisipin mong laging salungat
ang nakikita mong signs,
natural, tatabang o magiiba rin
ang pakikitungo mo sa kanya na maaaring
pagmulan ng hindi pagkakaunawaan!
kaya iho o iha, sundin mo kung ano ang
sinasabi ng iyong puso!

tsaka ang tanong lang naman dyan ei
kaya mo bang iwan ang taong mahal mong
talaga dahil lang sa signs na akala mo tama??

KAYA WAG SYADO MAGPADALA SA MGA SIGNS,
BAKA SA MALING DIREKSYUN K LANG DALHIN NYAN!
KUNG SAN KA MASAYA, GO!!! :)

"SA MALIIT NASISIRA ANG RELASYON"

subukan ninyong makipagusap sa mga taong
nasira ang relasyon at malalaman niyong halos
iisa ang nararamdaman nila.

nahandoon ang matinding sakit ng kalooban,
awa sa sarili, galit, panghihinayang,
pangongonsensiya, kawalan ng gana,
kawalan ng pagasa at iba pang negatibo..

pero kung uugatin ang dahilan
ng kanilang paghihiwalay, gaano man kalaki
o gaano man kalawak ang inabot ng kasiraan.
ang lahat ay nagsimula sa maliit na bagay!

naniniwala ako na hindi lang basta nagpapasya
ang lalaki o babae na bigla na lang
humiwalay sa karelasyon o asawa o sirain na
ang kanilang pagsasama.
may pinagmumulan ito na siyang nagiging dahilan
ng pagtalikod sa mga sumpaan.

palibhasa ngay maliliit kaya napakadaling
ibalewala o pabayaan.
maliliit nga kasi, mahina, hindi pansinin
walang bigat, walang importansya.
siguro nga ganoon.
pero kahit maliit ngunit kung hindi
naman natse check, may posibilidad
na dumami, bumigat, lumakas.

doon na nagiging malaki ang maliit.
magugulat na lang minsan ang kapareha
na bagamat maliliit lang ang dahilan
ng kabiyak, ngunit patuloy na naiipon,
nagiging collective at nagsasama sama
hanggang sa hindi na magawang ipagsawalang bahala
ng nakararamdam, bibigay din siya, susuko!
mapapagod, magsasawa!

napakahirap gamutin ang maliliit na bagay
na ito dahil bawat isa'y kakaiba
at nangangailangan ng espesipikong gamot
ngunit iisang solusyon lang ang hinahangad
at iyon ay wakasan na ang kanyang pagtitiis.

mahirap mapansin ang maliliit na bagay
at kinakailangan dito ang bukas na linya
ng komunikasyon ng magkapareha.

kung alam naman natin na mabuti ang kapareha
at hindi sinasadya ang mga pagkakasala
masmabuting pagusapan ang lahat.
may mga tao namang sadyang umaabuso
o walang tunay na pakialam sa sariling mga aksyon
at damdamin ng kapareha, may mas posibilidad na
masira ang kanilang relasyon kundi man magmistulang
isang parusa o habambuhay na tiisin.

sabi ngay nakakapuwing din ang maliit.
pero sa ganitong sitwasyon mas malala dahil nakakasira.

choices..

“There are always choices,
always paths from where we are to a better place.
To be alive requires choices every second.
There’s no such thing as the absence of choices.
It’s only our lack of awareness that blinds us to all the possibilities.
Even choices that appear undesirable
could turn into a key experience that reveals hidden paths.
We may never know in advance
where a path will lead us or how long our journey will take.
Only our inner wisdom knows the journey we are supposed to be on.
Trust it.”

-Don Shapiro-

"its about time''

i'd been busy having fun!
enjoying life, hanging with friends,
having drinks till morning..
spending lots of money for my loads
for my phone and smartbro..
update my Facebook, twitter, tumbler,
we heart it,google+,blog...

I'd been busy thinking life is just that easy..
that i need to enjoy while i'm still single,
that my mom can support all this financial
stuffs we need specially at home..
that i will be fine just be like this forever..

i forgot!! and didn't notice
that i am not getting any younger anymore
and my mom is getting older either..
i need to stand up on my own
i am a big girl now, ITS ABOUT TIME!!!!!!

its hard in my part to admit that
i am now 23 and yet i haven't helped my mom
for our financial needs..
that i haven't start to give her a better life
that I've been dreaming of..
that i didn't do anything at all.. :(
as in NOTHING AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i don't know whats wrong with me..
why i am like this..
but
i cant hardly move on what had happened 4yrs ago..
that was the biggest mistake i ever did in my entire life!!! EVER!!!!
that until now keeps me not moving.. ;(

but i need to move forward for my mom..
to help her and give her the life she deserve..
i need to keep in my mind
that i am not her 'little girl' anymore!
i am a BIG GIRL NOW!!
ITS ABOUT TIME TO RETURN THE FAVOR!!

I'll start it now!!! as in soon...

10 problems about social networking..

We all know how wonderful social networking is—how we’re all in touch with each other and updated on each other’s lives.But some problems have come about because of all the sharing and connectivity too.here are some of them:

1. Life envy – All of a sudden, you find yourself wondering why your life isn’t as fun and fabulous as those of your friends. Whenever you check Facebook, Twitter, tumblr, or Instagram, they’ve uploaded photos of themselves at a party having the time of their lives while you… are still in your pajamas at three in the afternoon on a Saturday.

2. Friends are reduced to likes – Instead of seeing who liked your photo or status update, you’re checking to see how many did. It doesn’t really matter who liked what you posted, but how many likes you were able to get! But then again, once someone really special laughs at a joke you just told him, he’s all that matters, right? Or at least he should be.

3. False information can spread like wildfire – According to Facebook user Anne Santos, “Some people are careless in sharing news without checking the facts first. I remember how so many people posted that a famous singer was dead and it was not true!”

4. People are less sensitive – It’s easy to comment on someone’s post when you aren’t right in front of them. It gives you more bravado, something you might think twice about if you were having an actual conversation. This has been the cause of many fights, or the reason for blocking and hiding friends.

5. Oversharing – When the wife of Maria Tuason’s (not her real name) cousin started posting flirty messages and photos on the Facebook timeline of another man, everyone was shocked. “That’s how we found out that they were no longer together,” she shares. “It was quite scandalous because even their lola asked to see the photos on Facebook!”

6. Your life is on hold as you go online – How familiar is this scenario to you? You and your friends or family members are having a meal together, but no one is talking. Everyone is on their phone checking their feed. You may like or comment on each other’s photos and status updates while sitting right across from each other, but talking is not really the priority. Having wifi is.

7. Nowhere to hide – Before, if you wanted to stay away from your ex, all you had to do was avoid his regular hangouts, but now, even if you block or unfriend him, he may still pop up on your feed through a common friend! This can be a good thing if it forces you to deal and move on, but it can be a very harrowing experience.

8. Stalking becomes easy – If you want to know more about a person you’ve just met or heard about, all you need to do is search for them and go through what they have posted on their social networking sites. Because of this, how many people haven’t been hired because of what they’ve posted on their pages? How many students have been sanctioned because of pictures they’ve uploaded that schools do not approve of? Boundaries are not what they used to be.

9. It’s harder to diet! – Majority of photos posted on Instagram are of children, pets, and food. Food, glorious food. Food that will make you crave and binge. Food that will destroy your diet. Tania Cruz (not her real name) has stopped checking her Instagram feed because she can’t stick to her diet with all the photos of mouth-watering dishes staring her in the face.

10. You feel lonely – It may not make sense, but as social networking brings us together, it can make you feel lonely too. As you see everyone’s connections and friendships, how people comment and like everyone else’s posts and not yours, how people get in touch with you only when they want you to like their photo so they can win a contest, and so on. Or what if you see a photo of all your friends at a get-together and you had no idea about it?

The best way to beat all these problems? Have a good sense of humor and remember the purpose of social media. It’s meant to make your life and relationships richer, not the other way around. The good news is, it’s all up to you and how you choose to deal with it all—and it shouldn’t be to gripe about it on Twitter.


By Olivia Yao

Lesson that will make you think about the way you treat others...

One night, at 11.30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab. She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him.

Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached.. It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."

Sincerely,

Mrs. Nat King Cole.

you are so blessed in every little single way.

If you woke up this morning with more health than illness...

You are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week.

If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation ...

You are ahead of 500 million people in the world.

If you can attend a meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death...

You are more blessed than three billion people in the world.

If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep...

You are richer than 75% of this world.

If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace ...

You are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

If your parents are still alive and still married ...

You are very rare, even in the United States and Canada.

If you can read this webpage, you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read at all.

Take nothing for granted.

my prayer

Lord, keep my eyes open to the beauty around me
and help me see where you are leading me
please help me discover and understand my journey God,
please watch over and protect my family,friends
and loved ones on their journey to you
Lord heal our hurting hearts and souls
and heal our bodies thank you for loving us
Lord please give us the knowledge and strength
to face our day to day life.
i love you LORD!
Amen

time

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived:
Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love.
One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink,
so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed.
Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered,
"No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat.
There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel.
"Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat,"
Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked,
"Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too,
but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice,
"Come, Love, I will take you."
It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed,
Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going.
When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way.
Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder,
"Who Helped me?"
"It was Time,"
Knowledge answered.
"Time?"
asked Love.
"But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

have a good life

when you really want something.
sometimes you have to swim a little deeper..
you cant give up just because things don't come easy..
you have to overcome the obstacles
and face your fears..
but in the end its all worth while..
life is full of ups and downs,
but if you believe in yourself
you will always come through with flying colors..
value friendship..
love and faith,
never underestimate yourself.
believe in your self..
have a good life!!

smile.. :))))

All things in life are temporary.
If they're going well, enjoy!
They won't last forever.
If they go wrong, don't worry,
they can't last long either.
What is nice about life is that
each day is never
like the other.
Enjoy life and throw all your troubles away! Smile!..

:))

Happiness is like a rainbow.
Sometimes we can only see it
after we've shed enough tears in our cloudy days.
Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should,
and let go of what you can't change.
Life's too short to be anything - but happy.

memories..

Have you ever heard a song
from so long ago
with so many memories tied to it
that it made you cry?
And didn’t you wish that
you could go back into time
when everything seemed
so much simpler and carefree?
Those are songs that are
the soundtrack of our lives…
the ones that bring back
childhood memories,
best friends,
first love, first heartbreak…
the memories.

think positive

I am making changes in my life,
taking everyday as it comes.
I am looking at things in a positive way,
taking the negative and throwing it away.
Somedays it seems like my life is going slow,
but I am glad it is, it gives me more time to figure out what i want to do.
I am more happy,
and willing to give life a chance.
I am not going to give up,
there is so much life has to offer.
I am glad I have my supports,
to help me through the rough times.
I have my friends and family,
who love me no matter what I do.
With this positive attitude,
I know I will do good in my life.



...franzperea...

y tym and not Love??

tym s d most imprtnt ting 2 gve 2 sum1.

y tym and not luv? coz luv.

u can give dat, u can have dat,

u can share dat 2 anybdy.

but wid tym, u can't stop it nor cntrol it.

coz u can nver bring back d tym dat has gone by.

so spend ur tym wisely and cherish it wyl u still hav it.

spend tym wid d 1 hu mins a lot 2 u coz u'l nvr know wen ur tym s over

...franzperea...

Kwutszzzz..

"Lahat naman ng tao sumeseryoso pagtinamaan ng pagmamahal. Yun nga
lang, hindi lahat matibay para sa temptasyon."

"Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo. Gamitin ang
utak para alagaan ang sarili mo."

"Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na
araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang."

"Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap
na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo, wala man lang nakipaglaban upang
makasama ka."

"Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin
ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo.
Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang
hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan
mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso,
utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo,
kundi IKAW mismo!"

"hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?"

“Sabi nila, sa kahit ano raw problema, isang tao lang ang makakatulong sa’yo - ang sarili mo. Tama sila. Isinuplong ako ng sarili ko. Kaya siguro namigay ng konsyensya ang Diyos, alam niyang hindi sa lahat ng oras e gumagana ang utak ng tao.”

“Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

“Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya.”

“Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.”

“Pakawalan mo ang mga bagay na makakasakit sa’yo kahit na pinapasaya ka nito. Huwag mong hintayin yung araw na sakit na lang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.”

Life is a gaMe

life is full of SHIT…u can nvr knw who’s der 4 real… u can nvr knw who ur friends are…u can never know who would put shit in you life…indeed, life is a game…you must learn how to play right, find out the cheats of the game and strive for the cup of life.

in the game of life, NEVER trust anyone coz you wouldn’t know who’s there 2 help you. who knows, dat person beside you would stabbed you at the back.

m a real person..i say what i want…f i don’t like you, i’ll tell you…. i’m a self confessed brat-gurl…i get what i want, i do what i want… i never put shit 2 anyone’s life.i play fair…but once u messed up with me, you would wish to die… i never choose anyone…

let me tell this, i’m fine,happy,contented,yah i was hurt,but WHY WOULD I LOOK 4 A COIN I LOST if I HAVE BILLS in my treasure box… i have the best, the greatest, why should i search for a little…

life is a game learn how to deal with any circumstances that would come in you way… COURAGE is your best weapon for the game..never fear anyone…always use your mind and NEVER BE DECEIVED BY YOUR HEART…coz your heart would be the traitor in life…it may kill you…you’ll never know….