"puso vs signs"

mahilig ka ba humingi ng mga 'signs'??
naniniwala ka ba sa mga ito??
paano nga ba kung nagtatalo na ang puso mo
at ang mga signs na nakikita mo??

ang hirap noh?
talagang mahihirapan kang pumili
kung alin ang susundin mo, ang puso mo
o ang mga signs na binibigay sayo!

mostly, we end up loving the 'wrong person'
dahil na rin sa kagagawan natin.
actually, wala namang maling tao
pagdating pag-ibig eh.
nadadala lang yun ng mga sitwasyon
at problemang kaakibat ng pakikipagrelasyon.
at kung paano yun ihahandle.

sundin mo kung san ka masaya!
kung happy ka sa ipinakikitang
pagmamahal sayo ng mahal mo,
deadmahin mo na lang muna ang signs!

baka yun pa ang makaapekto sa relasyon ninyo!
kasing kung iisipin mong laging salungat
ang nakikita mong signs,
natural, tatabang o magiiba rin
ang pakikitungo mo sa kanya na maaaring
pagmulan ng hindi pagkakaunawaan!
kaya iho o iha, sundin mo kung ano ang
sinasabi ng iyong puso!

tsaka ang tanong lang naman dyan ei
kaya mo bang iwan ang taong mahal mong
talaga dahil lang sa signs na akala mo tama??

KAYA WAG SYADO MAGPADALA SA MGA SIGNS,
BAKA SA MALING DIREKSYUN K LANG DALHIN NYAN!
KUNG SAN KA MASAYA, GO!!! :)

"hindi dapat madaliin ang pagibig"

May kasabihan na kapag hinog sa pilit
ang isang bagay ay hindi ito kasingtulad ng
nahinog sa tunay nitong kalagayan at panahon.
maari itong maging maasim, walang sarap,
kulang o hindi sapat dahil hindi tama ang naging
pagusbong at paglaki.

ganoon din sa pagibig . may malaking posibilidad na
hindi ito maging kasing init, kasing tamis, kasing lalim
at kasing totoo ng pagibig na umusbong sa
pamamagitan ng tamang paraan at panahon.

ang pagibig o ang karanasan natin sa pagibig ay
hindi magiging ganoon kaganda at kapanatag
kung pinilit natin o inobliga dahil ang pagiging
tunay nito ay kusang umusbong at nasa
kagustuhan ng isang tao!

hindi kaila sa atin na may mga pangyayari
sa buhay ng ibang tao na masasabi nating
hinihinog sa pilit ang pagibig.
kumbaga, minamadali dahil nagmamadali.

karaniwan na ang bagay na ito sa mga tinatawag
na huli sa byahe. minamadali nila ang pagusbong
at paglalim ng pagibig dahil kailangan nilang
umabot sa LAST TRIP!!

may mga pagkakataon din na minamadali nila
pagibig dahil wika ngay good catch ang kapareha.
at kasya mapunta sa iba o makawala pa
ay sinusunggaban na ito.

mabibilang natin sa kamay ang proportion
ng mga taong naging tunay na maligaya sa relasyon
na minadali kumpara sa mga dumaan sa angkop na proseso.
ang unang una kasing nawawala ay ang sapat na panahon
para higit na makilala ang kapareha,
lalo na ang mapagaralan at malaman ang tunay na
damdamin patungkol sa kanilang relasyon.

ang pagibig ang itinuturing na
pinakamakapangyarihang emosyon nating mga tao.
ganoon ito kalakas para kayaning pangibabawan
at pangunahan ang nakakaramdam nito.
at nangagahuluga na may malaki itong impluwesya
sa mga pananaw at desisyon ng isang tao.

kung mali na nga na pangibabawin ang pagibig
sa ating buhay, paano pa kung ang mangingibabaw
ay hindi ganoon kastable at katotoo?
hindi bat mas mapapahamak ang taong iyon?

paano naman halimbawa kung sabihin natin na nagmadali
na nga at binalewala na ang nararapat at sa bangdang huli,
kung kailan huli na, ay malaman niyang nagkamali siya?
maibabalik pa ba natin ang ikot ng orasan para bumalik
sa nakaraan at baguhin ang naging desisyon?
natural hindi na!

ang pagibig ay maaaring maganda at pangit.
masaya at malungkot!
matagumpay at bigo.
nasa atin ang kapangyarihan para makuha
ang alinman sa mga bagay na ito.
pero mas malaki ang tsansa natin
na sa maganda tayo mapupunta kung hahayaan
nating pnahon ang magsabi at magsiwalat
ng lahat lahat at hindi iyong
pangungunahan natin ito dahil
hindi tayo ganoon katalino!!!

fall in love

Falling in love is one of those things
that most people dream of happening,
but scares them at the same time.
There is no right or wrong way to fall in love,
there is no secret formula.
There is no set time table for when it should happen
or how long it will take.
The only thing we can do is to be open to it
and willing to take that chance in trusting another person with our h♡rt.

When you fall in love,
you have to go beyond the “warm and fuzzy” feelings
of being with that person,
even though those feelings are very nice.
It's always best to like the person you fall in love with,
which is why so many great relationships started out as friendships.
If you truly enjoy spending time together,
it will make the love even stronger.
Trust and respect are key in all relationships.
If there is no trust or respect,
it's time to rethink the relationship
and find someone who gives you both.
Don't rush things,
it takes time to build a trusting relationship with someone.

..L..O..V..E..

we all want to fall in love. why?
because that experience
makes us feel completely alive.
where every sense is heightened
every emotion is magnified
our everyday reality is shattered
and we are flying into the heavens.

it may only last a moment
an hour, an afternoon.
but that doesn't diminish its value.
because we are left
with memories that we
treasure for the rest of our lives..

did you marry the right person??

This is a very good article.
Those who are still single may learn something from... here...
Those who are already married or
in a commitment may take it
as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars,
a woman asked a common question. She said,
"How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because
the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner.
You anticipated their call,
wanted their touch,
and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) .

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say,
"I was swept of my feet.
" Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing,
and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy.
It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother
(if they come at all),
touch is not always welcome (when it happens),
and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship,
but if you think about your marriage,
you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage
when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking,
"Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages or relationship breakdown.
People blame their spouse/partner for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage/relationsh ip for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does
NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE/RELATIONSH IP IS
NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.
It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love.
You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love.
" Because it takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage/relationsh ip work.
Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don't feel like doing it ----
that's true love. And that's the foundation of a lasting and strong marriage.


Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse)
to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, c
ertain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..
you can "make"love.

Love is indeed a "decision".. .
Not just a feeling.
You'll not just go away with your relationship just because the feeling is gone.
In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.

Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."
FW: Ruth Beltran

"Marriage is more than saying I Do.
Marriage, like a precious plant,
needs constant tending for it to grow,
flourish, and bear fruti to last a lifetime, and beyond."
-David and Evelyn FelicianoSee More

TAKE TIME TO READ...
TO THOSE WHO ARE NOT MARRIED YET,
YOU MIGHT LEARN FROM IT...
AND TO THOSE WHO ARE ALREADY MARRIED,
YOU STILL MIGHT LEARN FROM IT.. :D

By: Gumdrop Shoppe

i LhoVe yhOu..

i Love yhou bRu..
missing yhou szo much!

my definition of Love

My definition of love...
is different from the book my definition of love is
more than just a look love is more than a word

more than a song, more than a note

love is more than a poem more than anything i've wrote love is reaching out to touch someone to be sure that they're there love is leaning in to kiss someone to remind them that you care love is looking her in the eyes and whispering in her ears love is cuddling when she cries and catching all her tears love is the warmth shared between hugs when everything else is cold love is knowing they'll still be there when everything else is old love is hearts beating faster and faster while everything else is slowed down love is singing sweet songs to her even if hundreds are around love is driving through the rain to help someone through tough times love is me wishing that you'll love me too wishing you'd be mine love isn't just holding hands love is holding hearts love isn't where it ends.... love is where it starts...