..L..O..V..E..

we all want to fall in love. why?
because that experience
makes us feel completely alive.
where every sense is heightened
every emotion is magnified
our everyday reality is shattered
and we are flying into the heavens.

it may only last a moment
an hour, an afternoon.
but that doesn't diminish its value.
because we are left
with memories that we
treasure for the rest of our lives..

:))

Happiness is like a rainbow.
Sometimes we can only see it
after we've shed enough tears in our cloudy days.
Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should,
and let go of what you can't change.
Life's too short to be anything - but happy.

im better now..

isang araw nagising na lamang ako
hindi n kita naiisip
hindi n kita naaalala
hindi n kita namimiss
hindi nko nalulungkot
kapag hindi k nagpparamda..

okay na ko!!
tanggap ko na
n hindi n tlaga tayo pra sa isa't isa!
masaya ka na
at masaya na rin nman ako!

single man ako ngayon
hindi ibigsabihin
inaasam k parin
n mageng akin k ule..
single pa rin ako ngayon
kasi hindi ko p natatagpuan
ang taong para sa akin talaga..
hayaan mo ibabalita ko sayo
kapag sya'y natagpuan ko na!

nga pla,
salamat sa magagandang alaala
salamat din sa lahat ng naituro mo skin
salamat din sa sakit
na naging dahilan
para matututu ako at maging matatag!
salamat mula sa kaibuturan ng aking puso..

kung magtagpo man mule ang ating landass
ikakagalak ko ang araw n iyon..
ang muleng mkita ang taong
nagpatibay sa akin..
utang na loob ko sayo
kung gano ako katatag ngayon..

masaya ako at nagppasalamat
at minsa'y naging bahagi ka ng aking buhay..
hindi man tayo ang nagkatuluyan
masaya ako at masaya k!
magkaiba man ang landas n ating tinatahak
hindi ibigsabhin dito na nagtatapos
ang ating pinagsamahan!
mananatili ka namang
MATALIK KONG KAIBIGAN!!!

hanggang sa mule BRU!! :)))

i've moved on.. :))

♥ Marry Your Daughter ♥ [animation]

..this is really for you..

if u see me walking with someone else,

its not because i want to,

its because you weren't brave enough to walk beside me.

if you see me smile,

its not because i forgot you,

its because i got tired of crying over you.

if you see me living again,

its not because Ive moved on,

its because i hate the fact that you can live without me.

so if i fall in love with someone else,

its not because i wanted to,

its because you weren't there to catch me.

open letter...

dear mommy,

you made me with dad, when u knew that ur
pregnant.I thought u will be happy, but im wrong!!

instead you punch your womb and got angry.
One day youu came to see dad and dad gave you a
plastic of medicine. when you got home you take
those medicines.it feels hot in my skin,it hurts mom!
it hurts so much...

the day came that i went out from ur womb.
i feel ur happiness mom. i felt the death but its okay.
as long as it made you smile....


your child



this is a letter from an aborted child...


natouch aq ng mabasa q toh! dq lam kung anu mrrmdman q..
naawa aq.. at nalungkot para sa mga batang inaabort ng knilangmga ina..;c
anung puso ba ang meron ang mga taong gmgwa ng ganito??
kawawa ang mga batang inaabort.. wala kamuwang muwang,
ginawa ngkanilang mommy at daddy
subalit ang masakit dito ei hindi mapanindigan!
nabuo ng dahil sa sarap subalit winakasan sa napakapait n ktapusan! ;c
sana'y makunsensya ang mga taong gumagawa ng ganito..
lalo na sa mga lalaki na hindi kayang panindigan ang kanilang ginawa!!
very szaddddd!!
plsss! avoid abortion!!!!!!!!! ..........

memories..

Have you ever heard a song
from so long ago
with so many memories tied to it
that it made you cry?
And didn’t you wish that
you could go back into time
when everything seemed
so much simpler and carefree?
Those are songs that are
the soundtrack of our lives…
the ones that bring back
childhood memories,
best friends,
first love, first heartbreak…
the memories.

simple like this..

He’s been a major part of your life, of course you’ll miss him;
it’s perfectly normal. It’s like getting a tooth pulled out;
after the dentist pulls it out you’re relieved.
But how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot
where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day.
Just cause it was hurting you doesn’t mean you don’t notice it.
It leaves a gap and sometimes, you feel yourself missing it terribly.
It’s going to take awhile, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? No, cause it was causing you pain.
Pulling the tooth was the right decision,
but it’s going to hurt.

did you marry the right person??

This is a very good article.
Those who are still single may learn something from... here...
Those who are already married or
in a commitment may take it
as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars,
a woman asked a common question. She said,
"How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because
the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner.
You anticipated their call,
wanted their touch,
and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) .

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard.
In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say,
"I was swept of my feet.
" Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing,
and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy.
It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother
(if they come at all),
touch is not always welcome (when it happens),
and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship,
but if you think about your marriage,
you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage
when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking,
"Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages or relationship breakdown.
People blame their spouse/partner for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage/relationsh ip for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does
NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE/RELATIONSH IP IS
NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.
It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love.
You have to "make" it day in and day out.
That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love.
" Because it takes time, effort, and energy.
And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM.
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage/relationsh ip work.
Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love.
When you begin choosing to love, even if you don't feel like doing it ----
that's true love. And that's the foundation of a lasting and strong marriage.


Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse)
to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, c
ertain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect.
If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..
you can "make"love.

Love is indeed a "decision".. .
Not just a feeling.
You'll not just go away with your relationship just because the feeling is gone.
In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.

Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."
FW: Ruth Beltran

"Marriage is more than saying I Do.
Marriage, like a precious plant,
needs constant tending for it to grow,
flourish, and bear fruti to last a lifetime, and beyond."
-David and Evelyn FelicianoSee More

TAKE TIME TO READ...
TO THOSE WHO ARE NOT MARRIED YET,
YOU MIGHT LEARN FROM IT...
AND TO THOSE WHO ARE ALREADY MARRIED,
YOU STILL MIGHT LEARN FROM IT.. :D

By: Gumdrop Shoppe